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My mother [livejournal.com profile] beeby just called to let me know her father, my grandfather, died this afternoon. He was a brilliant man who was recognised not only for his amazing contributions to electrical engineering; the most prominent of which was helping to develop the PAL colour system we use in the UK for television, but also for helping to raise his children and enjoy his grandchildren with his wife until she died some 10 years ago. I remember playing chess with him when I was young (and eventually winning too!), breaking his anniversary clock and anything else I could get my hands on, mowing his lawn and generally being a kid. I remember his pipe and the smell of his pipe tobacco, his mannerisms and mock surprise at our jokes, not getting our jokes at all and being told off by my mother for not humouring us. I remember his house, with the creaky floorboards and stairs.

He died, they think, from a heart attack as he was driving and turning a corner in his car. The car crashed into a 3 foot high wall; no one else was involved and they think it was quick. There will be a post mortem and probably a burial next to his wife.

That's the last of my grandparents now. He was the oldest at 92, and funnily enough the only smoker. My mother asked me if I wanted his wedding ring.

Date: 2004-03-21 12:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] bex-sgs.livejournal.com
I'm so sorry. I'll hold you and your family as a whole in my thoughts.

My grandad is not well and this pm i posted about it. He IS the only smoker though. He's stopped now, but it's too late to not have done damage to his arteries. They have to decide whether or not to operate on his heart. They're in South Africa.

Date: 2004-03-21 12:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] blaadyblah.livejournal.com
Oh hon, I'm so sorry :(
There really isn't anything else I can say, just that I'll be thinking of you and your family while you mourn him.

Date: 2004-03-21 12:54 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] duranorak.livejournal.com
Oh, love. I'm so sorry.
Thinking of you.

E.
x

Date: 2004-03-21 12:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] gashinryu.livejournal.com
He sounds well remembered...I raise a glass to him.

Date: 2004-03-21 12:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] teadaemon.livejournal.com
I never know what to say in these situations, but rest assured my thoughts are with you and your folks.

I've got my dad's wedding ring, though it still needs to be repaired.

Date: 2004-03-21 01:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rik.livejournal.com
sorry to hear about your loss.

i wish you a long life.

Date: 2004-03-21 03:05 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] purrthecat.livejournal.com
My condolences.

Date: 2004-03-21 05:08 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] gerald_duck
Sad news indeed; you have my condolences.

And yet, it sounds like he had a pretty long and full life. I hope you all have some time to celebrate that, amid the mourning. Judging from your reminiscences, that should be the case.

*hugs*

Date: 2004-03-21 10:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] whotheheckami.livejournal.com
We're here when you need to talk a lot more
I still miss my Taid and he has been gone for nearly 20 years
*huge hugs*

Date: 2004-03-22 12:36 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] the-mendicant.livejournal.com
Hugs honey. Sounds like a good man who had a long, worthwhile life and a good clean death. What more could one ask for?

Date: 2004-03-22 04:13 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ex-lark-asc.livejournal.com
My sympathy..

Date: 2004-03-22 04:38 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nemy.livejournal.com
my condolences.

*hug*

Date: 2004-03-22 04:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] angelkjg.livejournal.com
Sorry to hear of your sad news. *Hugs*.

Date: 2004-03-22 12:58 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ninneviane.livejournal.com
Not much I can say, other than to let you know I'm thinking of you **hugs**

Date: 2004-03-25 11:56 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lunatic59.livejournal.com
Your grandfather and mine sound a lot alike. Mine taught me how to use tools [he was a machinist] and how to be thoughtful and strong and considerate and independent. Though he lacked a formal education, he was probably the smartest man i've ever met. Wise in the ways of the world, exprienced in life and happy to live it. He passed a few years ago at age 94, God rest his soul.

Your Grandfather is most assuredly happy he is remembered well by his family. The hurt from the loss will eventually fade, but the memories will burn bright as long as you are alive. Take the ring.

Date: 2004-03-27 07:48 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] carakarena.livejournal.com
I'm sorry about your grandfather.

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