Weird phobias
Feb. 21st, 2006 01:32 pmA friend kindly reminded me of a phobia I have. It's not a big or all-consuming phobia, but it's actually quite weird. I have decided to post it as a thought-provoking meme type thing. I'd be intrigued if you would either comment or post your own 'weird phobia', doing your best to convey your experience of the feelings your phobia invokes in you.
I have this Thing about plants. I don't mind looking at them, but I don't like touching them. Other than trees. I'll go reasonably out of my way to avoid touching them. Recently we went to a place with loads of sunflowers. It alarmed me how big and heavy they were, especially the heads.
I'm pretty certain it's to do with their feel. Bark and wood is reassuring and solid. Grass is mostly OK. Brambles are just annoying and potentially painful with their thorns, but their stems are solid enough not to bother me. It's things that are not solid, that are furry, or sticky, or just not wood-like or plain-without-hairs-and-not-rubbery-leaf-like in any way. *shudder*.
I'm going to tenuously link this to autism as autists are renown for disliking particular textures.
Oh, as a note, I've got used to eating plants and fruits, thankfully. But cannot stand fried tomatoes. Raw tomatoes are generally out, although occasionally I may have a little.
I have this Thing about plants. I don't mind looking at them, but I don't like touching them. Other than trees. I'll go reasonably out of my way to avoid touching them. Recently we went to a place with loads of sunflowers. It alarmed me how big and heavy they were, especially the heads.
I'm pretty certain it's to do with their feel. Bark and wood is reassuring and solid. Grass is mostly OK. Brambles are just annoying and potentially painful with their thorns, but their stems are solid enough not to bother me. It's things that are not solid, that are furry, or sticky, or just not wood-like or plain-without-hairs-and-not-rubbery-leaf-like in any way. *shudder*.
I'm going to tenuously link this to autism as autists are renown for disliking particular textures.
Oh, as a note, I've got used to eating plants and fruits, thankfully. But cannot stand fried tomatoes. Raw tomatoes are generally out, although occasionally I may have a little.
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Date: 2006-02-21 01:59 pm (UTC)I can't stand the feel of it, the sound it makes when you take something out of it's box...just argh!
eek!
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Date: 2006-02-21 02:43 pm (UTC)Just the thought of it is putting me on edge! *shudders*
sorry, I couldn't resist
Date: 2006-02-21 02:49 pm (UTC)Hehe...
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Date: 2006-02-21 10:58 pm (UTC)Also, submarines. Can't stand their big, black, 8-times-bigger-under-the-surface lurkyness.
Also, I used to HATE the look of fish skin (e.g. on cod), would make me retch. Better now, but only just.
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Date: 2006-02-21 02:11 pm (UTC)There are different levels of slimey.
Reletively low down the scale are baked beans then in the middle are mushrooms and at the top is cold custard *shudders* they make me feel sick just thinking about them let alone putting any of them in my mouth.
There are lots of other foods that count too but I can't think of them right now.
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Date: 2006-02-21 02:29 pm (UTC)I used to be bad with baked beans and mushrooms, but I'm mostly better now. I never liked custard when it was hot. However, custard is fascinating for other reasons...
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Date: 2006-02-21 03:10 pm (UTC)From Nina's Dad
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Date: 2006-02-21 02:22 pm (UTC)(On the other hand, disposing of sour, lumpy milk holds no such fear. Odd that.)
As a footnote, I'm also not a fan of tomatoes - unless pulped.
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Date: 2006-02-21 02:30 pm (UTC)Tomatoes are fine, great even, when they're cooked in a dish with other things (eg. bolognaise) or in a sauce (tomato ketchup). I could not eat things as a child unless it was smothered in tomato ketchup. *shrug*. I think it's more to do with texture than anything else.
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Date: 2006-02-21 02:46 pm (UTC)My family know this, and so when I landed that job bought me a pre-arranged box of flowers! Bless them.
My crazy phobia is moths. Mottephobia, I do believe. I am utterly terrified of moths. There's no grey area or anything, they scare the absolute bejesus out of me.
IT extends to butterflies as well. Even seeing them on screen, or behind glass, sends shivers.
I don't know what started it, where this phobia stems from, but they terrify me. It got to a point where I was scared of summer coming round and was seriously considering some kind of phobia therapy. I never got that far and news recently has said (thankfully) that the numbers of moths has decreased dramatically, especially the bigger ones.
As a sort of compensation, I'm fine with spiders. I know spiders eat moths and whenever I see a big spider in the house my family/housemates call on me to rescue it. I won't kill them (unless I absolutely have to) because I know that more spiders = less moths!
But as for the moths, I won't open my window at night during the summer, however hot it is, because I'm damned certain they'd see the light and come in to terrorise me.
*fear*
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Date: 2006-02-21 03:10 pm (UTC)Midges, mossies, well, like I said, I don't think my reaction to them is any different to what is considered normal. I'm aware that they can bite/sting me and that if they do it may well hurt/itch and as such I don't welcome them in with open arms, but I view them as more of an irritation than a thing to be feared.
Moths on the other hand...
PS, I'm so sorry for my dad's uber mean comment just then...
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Date: 2006-02-21 03:18 pm (UTC)I am ok with them so long as they stay still but turn innto a screaming wreck the second they move. Its the way they flap about and fly at me.
I was leaving the house one day and one fell from the ceiling right down my cleaveage. Boy did I scream!
Horray foor spiders.
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Date: 2006-02-21 02:51 pm (UTC)Deformity, particularly polydactyly and conjoined twins.
Spitting things out.
I have other phobias too, like the feel of terracotta or expanded polystyrene, but those aren't weird phobias. (-8
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Date: 2006-02-21 02:59 pm (UTC)I can understand the phobia of deformity, but I consider that an important one to overcome. I'm still working on it. I had a fair amount of experience when I was living in Indonesia as a child. I made a point to shake the hand of someone who'd helped me, who had polydactyly.
Spitting things out is disgusting in its own right, but a phobia? Care to elabourate again?
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Date: 2006-02-21 09:24 pm (UTC)So I've explained further, but I know it still doesn't make sense. Phobias don't, right? (-8
Yes, I agree the phobia of deformity is important to overcome, but it's somewhat tricky. I'd turn into a gibbering wreck if asked to shake the hand of someone with polydactyly. No doubt I could work it out of my system, but "excuse me, may I touch your hand a few times so it squicks me less?" is hardly something one can ask without making the afflicted feel like a circus freak.
Basically, once something's in my mouth it's getting eaten. The dislike of spitting things out — coupled, of course, with my silly range of allergies and intolerances — makes me really nervous about putting unknown foodstuffs in my mouth. It also means I ate toothpaste until I was about twenty!
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Date: 2006-02-21 03:25 pm (UTC)I was just saying... *sniff*
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Date: 2006-02-21 05:37 pm (UTC)They are fine if they are brand new, i dont have the disure to have anyhting to do with them in that stage either, but when they are wet, or crumpled, dirty, It sends me off into shieks and I start crying hysterically, which is abit embarassing.
I refuse ot touch them, the texture makes me gag. and oh god do I even have to mention the smell.
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Date: 2006-02-21 11:41 pm (UTC)Not that weird really i suppose.
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Date: 2006-02-22 03:21 pm (UTC)And what about daddy-long-legs? I thought you had a thing about them?
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Date: 2006-02-26 10:00 pm (UTC)Here goes:
Swans, fish, dead leaves, heights, flying, spiders, moths, craneflies, the inside of kettles, toilet cisterns, boilers, drains, swimming pools, fans, robots...err, did I leave anything out?
Beat that, you guys! :D
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Date: 2006-02-27 11:10 am (UTC)i'm
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