My last update seemed to come out differently to the one I was imagining in my head. I wanted to talk about approaching my 30th and feeling that I was having fun but not really following my dreams or ambitions, like blacksmithing (specifically weaponsmithing). I've always been the sort to have something to look forwards to, to work towards. I've also been adverse to spending money on entertainment (harks back to my student days, I guess). So I guess I've been coming to the conclusion that it's not wrong to want to spend a bit of money on hobbies, even when those hobbies could be quite costly - if I can afford it, that is.
So, this is why I want to sort out my finances, so I'm not putting my hobbies before my original and sensible plans of making sure I have a decent pension and no mortgage in my old age. Anything left over after that will be money for toys; which is better than my current cycle of spending money on toys and not actually saving up for the house improvements or anything sensible. I know this is a phase and I know it's going to change soon, but I guess I just want to make sure I'm not committing myself to a boring life with my plans for the future without living while I'm young enough to enjoy it fully :)
Other people don't seem to have these issues - or if they do they don't seem to talk about them much. So, how do other people view these sorts of things?
So, this is why I want to sort out my finances, so I'm not putting my hobbies before my original and sensible plans of making sure I have a decent pension and no mortgage in my old age. Anything left over after that will be money for toys; which is better than my current cycle of spending money on toys and not actually saving up for the house improvements or anything sensible. I know this is a phase and I know it's going to change soon, but I guess I just want to make sure I'm not committing myself to a boring life with my plans for the future without living while I'm young enough to enjoy it fully :)
Other people don't seem to have these issues - or if they do they don't seem to talk about them much. So, how do other people view these sorts of things?
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Date: 2007-07-18 06:53 pm (UTC)So far, this system seems to be working, but I'm not sure I'd recommend it :)
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Date: 2007-07-18 10:18 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-07-18 07:18 pm (UTC)There are so many things to do in your spare time. So many gadgets and toys to play with that you could constantly buy "stuff" every month. When you do you just feel guilty that you are not putting any aside or investing enough.
My solution was to go out and make sure I earned enough to do both. Alas - in working towards that goal I seem to have forgotten the enjoyment aspect and became somewhat reclusive and a bit of a workaholic. I am working to redress the balance.
Its a tough call to make. Pensions these days aren't even safe enough to consider a worthwhile contribution to a decent pensionable lifestyle. It seems the only investment you can make in todays economic climate that will cater for your old age is property. Sadly the investment required to hold a portfolio of properties is significant at the outset and therefore either precludes most people or necessitates the reduction of lifestyle today in hope of a better lifestyle tomorrow.
There is no easy answer but the obvious solution is to try and gain a balance. If you can't I would suggest you just blow all your cash having fun and hope that you can rely on the government at your time of retirement to look after you.
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Date: 2007-07-18 10:20 pm (UTC)I've only really started earning enough recently to get the toys I've always wanted. Now I just need to temper that long enough to firmly establish my future and I'll be happy to save/spend what I have left - which should still be considerable by my previous standards.
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Date: 2007-07-18 10:23 pm (UTC)This is a second weaker version of that I guess.
Anyway, yes, there are of course people far worse off than me. I am grateful for the start I got in life, but the only reason I'm where I am today is because of the work I put into getting here.
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Date: 2007-07-18 11:55 pm (UTC)I worry that after 2 years of contributing to a pension, I stopped due to job change etc, and I don't have a pension plan now :( :( I'd like to invest more when I return to the UK. I try and hunt advice, but it often seems very contradictory, and I've been stung by 'experts' giving me bad advice in the past :(
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Date: 2007-07-19 09:56 am (UTC)And that's about the limit of my knowledge on the subject..
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Date: 2007-07-20 03:23 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2007-07-20 03:47 pm (UTC)